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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 27.06.2025 07:48

How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Making more friends is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do flat earthers exist?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do many women wear sleeveless shirts, more so than men?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Does not procrastinate.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What I need from you?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.